Spread the love In this part of the world, kids are made to believe the word ‘sex’ is a bad word and should be avoided in all discussions. It is not unheard of for mothers to come down hard on kids caught discussing sex or worse still, engaging in it. Worse still, in times past, a lot of female kids were groomed to believe sex is not something they should crave, let alone enjoy. Sex is meant to be an act you give to your husband and it is your duty to ensure he’s completely satisfied, no matter what. Women who fought to enjoy sex or were very vocal during the act were viewed in a negative light and in extreme cases, seen as ‘whores’. There have been cases, a few I have personally seen, where guys walked out of a perfectly good relationship because their partner was confident in her sexuality and comfortable enough to express herself and depend for what she wanted. One of the guys opined that the lady was too sexually vocal to be ‘pure’. According to him, the sexual positions and moves she displayed, as well as the things she said during sex, made him believe she had too much ‘sexual milage’ and he didn’t want such a woman. This might seem extreme, but it happens and consequently a lot of women become sexually inhibited, unable to let themselves be completely free during sex. During a recent group discussion, one of the women let on she became sexually caged due to the very strict religious upbringing she had. She was the daughter of two pastors and was caged her whole life. Her movement was strictly monitored and she was to cone back straight from school, being allowed only an hour to do so. She also wasn’t allowed any friends, girls inclusive as her parents believed they would be a bad influence on her. Worse still was the fact that she alone got this overprotective treatment, as her elder and younger brothers were allowed more freedom. In the end, she got married to her first ever boyfriend but her marriage is presently rocky with her husband stating her sexual aloofness as the cause. She was presently seeking solutions to this problem. Signs You are Sexually Inhibited Most women who are sexually inhibited find they experience some or most of the following: They hold hold both vocally and physically during sex as they are afraid of losing control. They find it nearly impossible to be totally free or do not know how to be so. They sometimes lack sexual prowess and remain unresponsive, much to the chargrin of their partners. They mostly do not discuss sex as they associate it with the word sin. They’ve never experienced orgasm and so do not know any better. How to Break Out Of Your Sexual Inhibition Sexual inhibition can be broken, it however would require commitment on you and your partner’s parts for this to occur. Related: 5 Reasons Why You Attract Married Men Here are Some Steps That Have Helped a Few Women Overcome Their Sexual Inhibition Overtime Get to Truly Know What Sex Is The first step to coming out of this sexual cage is to know what sex truly is. Sex is an act designed for two people to share, enjoy, and likely bond with each other. True sex is most times intimacy on a deeper level between two people. To break free of the sexual cage, you would need to understand that everything you know about sex is largely false and that sex can be beautiful when with the right person. You would have to unlearn and relearn what sex really is to heal. Get to Understand Your Body Get to know what you like and what you absolutely can’t stand. Discover what arouses you and do more of it. Related: How to Get Over a Breakup Really Fast Get Your Partner Involved The journey to the sexual life you want cannot be achieved alone. Your partner will have to be fully involved. Teach him how to love you to get you to that high. Tell him when you like something and want him to do more of it. Go Easy on Yourself Understand it took years for your sexual views and orientation to get formed and solidified, so it would be unfair to yourself to expect a complete overhaul in days. It may take a while for you to become fully sexually reformed or transformed. You should keep at it and celebrate every little progress you make along the way. previous post 3 Proven Ways to Preserve Your Eggs for Up to a Year next post Morning Sickness in Pregnancy: Easy Ways You Can Manage Yours You may also like 11 Practical Ways to Get Over a Breakup... December 24, 2019 6 Ways to Stop Being Desperate to Get... November 2, 2019 Why Men Cheat? 8 Reasons Men Give for... October 19, 2019 How to Breakup the Right Way… September 15, 2019 7 Relationship Tips to Win Your Man Back September 1, 2019 10 Marriage Advice to Give You a Lasting... 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